i am just back from a big fat nigerian wedding. i must say that it has become very time-consuming being a professional akwa ibomite. but this was the most fun I have had at a wedding in a long time, so i can't complain. great food, music, dancing and people--congrats to the newlyweds!

i'm posting one of my flipcam vids for you all to enjoy the ashebi women dancing in the bride and groom. i keep asking my aunties whether i must be married before i can also wear ashebi, but i can never get a straight answer. --AL.